Blog – Sida 7 – Xtas – tantrisk transformation

Xtasmassage vad är det?

Den korta förklaringen är att xtasmassage är en tantramassage….

Tantramassage vad är det? Vadå tantra?

För att underlätta för dig som kund tänkte jag berätta lite hur det går till hos just mig. För det finns lika många sätt att ge en tantramassage som det finns massörer…

Ordet tantra är sanskrit och betyder expansion och väv. Ordet Tantra kan också betyda att utvidga – medvetandet, vetandet om livet, och frigöra – sig själv. Så är du redo för expansion? Vågar du frigöra dig själv.

I vissa sammanhang kan man översätta tantriskt sex med heligt sex, där man arbetar med att låta energin i de lägre chakrana (energicentra) stiga upp genom kroppens chakran.

Under massagen så arbetar jag både med din fysiska kropp och får dina muskler att slappna av och också med dina energicentra, så att din energi sprids ut i kroppen. Tanken med tantrisk massage är att den sexuella energin ska öka och bevaras i kroppen, jag brukar kalla det din livsenergi.

Du kommer hel och ren till behandlingen, som oftast utförs på madrass på golvet. Du är helt avklädd och jag använder en ekologisk doftfri cocosolja. Hela kroppen masseras inklusive könet. En tantrisk massage är en behandling som syftar till öka energiflödet i kroppen och ge dig en skön avslappning.

Många beskriver behandlingen som annorlunda, avslappnande, oerhört skönt, energigivande och behagligt.

Välkommen boka, det finns tider i Abrahamsberg och Nacka, titta under länken bokning/booking och sök dig fram till en tid som passar dig.

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One more week

We all want a man that is present, but how present are you your self? Women often hear that we can multitask, check mail, make dinner, talk to a friend etc at the same time…but is it very effective? In Tantra we talk about presence and breathing, we could call it mindfulness also. So is your mind full of things this las week before Xmas or are you capable of be present in what you do.

Stop for a moment, feel your feet, take a deep breath, close your eyes, just breath for a couple of moments, now you are ready to meet the world.

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Some books I like this time

Urban Tantra by Barbara Carellas

The Superior Man and Dear Lover by David Deida

Radical Ecstacy by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

they also wrote Ethical Slut

my favorites all over

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In Sweden today we celebrate Lucia

A day to celebrate the witch and the feminine. So women dress up in dresses and dance, dance your inner fire. Sing your favourite songs. Use your favourite perfume and just dive in to all that the feminine represents for you. Take care and nourish your self.

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I am one day late so just one quickie…

If you are a woman and wanting and longing for your man to step up and dominate you, be patient.

Create a vacum

Sit on your hands, don’t call or text…he needs to get a chance to step up

Just be patient and wait

Take care of your self while waiting

And of course when he starts to take the lead, just follow, don’t criticize

good luck

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Get out of your comfort zone

Step out off your routines and do something that either scares you or make you feel discomfort.

It will help you expand your inner garden and stretch your limits, and make you grow from inside.

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Let your dreams come true!

One of my tantrateachers use to say if one man can walk on the moon, everyone can, it just takes more time, training, and other resources.

Another one use to say fulfill your dreams and fantasies, there is a lot of information behind, and of course energy.

So, people, what do you dream about? What fantasies do you have? How can you fulfill them?

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What the hell is dominance?

For me it’s guidance, leadership, energy, power, intention, thought, love, presence etC

Its an intention to move somebody from a to b inside them self, it’s a journey and an experience.

So what to you think it is, what do you feel when you think about dominance?

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Dare to surrender

In my workshops I use to ask, who do you surrender to? Even the most dominant person use to find someone. It takes a lot of guts and trust to deeply surrender. But hey what a reward that usually comes with it. So what is stopping u today to surrender? What do you need to feel safe enough? Find a big yes, and jump!

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How to find your boundaries and to keep them or remove them.

If you see your self as a house with a garden, there is always different rules for different people how close you let them. Some people just passing by without even care about you and your house. Some you talk with over the fence, when you get the mail from the mailbox. There are people you invite to garden parties and some you talk with in your kitchen. Some people stay in your guestroom and some can sleep in your bed. Are you sure you have the right people at the right place. There might be people in your bed you want to throw out and vice versa, think if there are people passing by and you don’t even notice them. Look up today and invite a stranger into your life. It could be a smile or for coffee, or more. It’s your choice!